Stephon & Luke: Love With No Limits
Stephon is African American - his values are southern but originally from the suburbs of New Castle, Delaware — he has lived in New York City since 1998, so he reacts like a New Yorker. Meanwhile, Luke is Australian with a background of English, Irish and French. Luke lived in London for half his life, however, so he feels hybrid British. Today they celebrate being head over heels in love...and recently engaged! Read their story below.
Culture....
Cultural experiences, differences and similarities have played a big role in our relationship. I (Stephon) am a seasoned New Yorker with many work contributions however, many thoughts on being a hopeless romantic, and Luke is relatively new to New York, but has cemented a foundation of great work with love on the brain. The beauty to our union together is staying aligned, so we consistently show one another life's ropes, how to be better men both with separate values but committed to long term partnership. Luke and I both come from big families of modest means, who never made us feel at a lack of, so we have a good, humble foundation in common. In terms of race, my experience is totally different from Luke's. I have navigated stereotypes that never even entered into Luke's world, but we share the experiences as one, with the hopes that nothing will stand in our path for greater love and a happier future. Our decisions and lifestyles are something we have to always be aware of, but the way we handle any challenges are so incredible.
The Connection...
We met online, and what followed was a total surprise. There was an instant spark to connect, communicate and share. Throughout our one year journey we are still getting to know each other emotionally, mentally and spiritually which is why our journey together feels natural, organic and the most exciting aspect to our growth as equal partners. We never want that to stop! Thanks online dating ;)
Passion...
Stephon: I'm a marketing professional with an interest for tailored buzz-worthy activations, so I'm truly passionate about fostering great relationships and witnessing how they merge together for something dynamic. I get inspired by creativity and content as well, whether it is exploring new neighborhoods, ideas, opportunities conversations, but most importantly I'm excited to be centered and sharing a lot of special moments with my other half! #wedogoodwork.
Luke: I’m a word nerd, so I’m passionate about reading, writing, and stories. I get inspired by creativity, whether it’s a new exhibition, a book, or a cool look on the subway. I also love biking, being around nature, and traveling. And of course, I’m passionate about my boyfriend :)
What do you wish people knew about you?
Stephon: Wow great question, behind this large exterior or perceived stereotype of a Leo man - I'm shy, humble and sometimes insecure but I wish people knew despite everything, I'm welcoming, courageous and made to achieve it all.
Luke: I can be an introvert at times, so I wish people knew that being quiet doesn’t always mean I have nothing to say – it just means I’m trying to work out the best way to say it. The quietest thought can be as powerful as the loudest voice.